I usually find better things to do with my time than read The American Prospect, but Linda Hirshman was too comical to pass up.
Great as liberal feminism was, once it retreated to choice the movement had no language to use on the gendered ideology of the family. Feminists could not say, "Housekeeping and child-rearing in the nuclear family is not interesting and not socially validated. Justice requires that it not be assigned to women on the basis of their gender and at the sacrifice of their access to money, power, and honor."
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Here's the feminist moral analysis that choice avoided: The family -- with its repetitious, socially invisible, physical tasks -- is a necessary part of life, but it allows fewer opportunities for full human flourishing than public spheres like the market or the government. This less-flourishing sphere is not the natural or moral responsibility only of women. Therefore, assigning it to women is unjust. Women assigning it to themselves is equally unjust.
This is modern feminism: women are expected to make the choices feminists pick for them. But I will give Hirshman this much credit: she does not try to pretend that choice is about abortion.
The choice talk spilled over from people trying to avoid saying "abortion," and it provided an irresistible solution to feminists trying to duck the mommy wars. A woman could work, stay home, have 10 children or one, marry or stay single. It all counted as "feminist" as long as she chose it.
And she does violate the feminist rule against ever, ever saying something funny.
Only the most radical fringes of feminism took on the issue of gender relations at home, and they put forth fruitless solutions like socialism and separatism. We know the story about socialism. Separatism ran right into heterosexuality and reproduction, to say nothing of the need to earn a living other than at a feminist bookstore.
Not exactly Dave Barry, but hey, we're working with low expections here.
UPDATE: Given this post by Michelle Malkin on her marriage, I suppose Hirshman will express her great admiration for Malkin. Yeah, yeah.